Tuesday, June 25, 2013

In Memory of...


This may seem like a sad post, but it is not. I have written a few of those over the last few years mostly about clients or parents of clients who have passed away. A sudden death of someone not-so-close always strikes me as an opportunity to sing that worn but true song of being grateful for the people around you - the ones who love you and who are alive.

This person was not someone I knew although I have a connection through one of my clients. I am struck with the finality of it all, and how it just can't be taken back. I looked at my own kids this weekend, probably a bit too long, trying to memorize the details of their faces and the lines of their limbs and fingers. I hugged them for a few more seconds than usual. I tucked little gal in for the night for much longer than was actually necessary. 

But this is what there is. This happens sometimes, and we go on until there is something else. I guess this post is a little sad after all. 

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Just One More


I know someone else's beach pictures aren't all that interesting, but what if they are full of joy, almost tangible? These kids are pros at vacation, in the water from morning to night, until their soggy heads finally crash on their pillows. I think I can get to the place of happiness and contentment too, but it's not really the same as being this free.